He shouldn’t be allowed to be in couple with anyone. He’s a womanizer, can’t stop himself and when he gets bored he starts drinking and put the blame on his exes.
My psychology professor said, “The problems at the beginning of the marriage will be the same problems that lead to divorce at the end.” it’s important to solve those problems right at the beginning so then they don’t become bigger at the end.
I had a wonderful art teacher who said to me that in the beginning we only see 10% of the other one flaws....so by the end, one either work on it to stay together or will see the whole 100% and end up in divorce.
Its not that ppl dont change its that they are far more comfortable being the pos they currently are rather than seeing something is wrong and choosing to do the hard work it takes to truly see a change and fix what got messed up. Healing isn't for the faint of heart and isn't easy or everyone would do it. @@HalfLash
@@laraoneal7284 she didn’t look too happy either! It was just an itch that both have had for years. Now that it’s been scratched, they can both go on their merry ways into other peoples lives n mess those up too!
Affleck is an alcoholic until he gets help he's going to have problems and when he gets clean she'll see that he has to on his part he all allowed Jennifer to do that to him he has no self-esteem has no clue who he is until he gets cleaned nobody else but to himself he could get help once he starts working on himself that will not happen anymore
The reason they didn’t make their marriage work is because the issues they had on their first go hadn’t changed. Jen likes the limelight and flashing cameras, Ben doesn’t. Nothing against either one.
He just had to get her out of his system. If he never married her, he’d still be pining for her. So he finally married her n now it’s over. He finally got her out of his system!
That's what she's all about, marry them then divorce & take them for all the $$$ an Assets she can get, she ain't that great of an actor either, No class at all lol, Jenny from the block" @@marynehra502
No, it’s the other way around. He left her both times so it was him that JLO needed to grasp onto and marry to get him out of her system. All the $17 million worth of engagement rings won’t quench her insatiable thirst and desperation for partner who will stick around for her vile behavior. True to her Leo zodiac sign, she absolutely is an animal-a very codependent one
No I dont think so. She won several hundred millions with her marriages. I think this haven been always her goal. She collects engagements rings like Thanos as someone said once... High maintenance gold digger primadonna. She is too old to change on that.
Totalmente de acuerdo si realmente fuera bueno no haría todas esas cosas en público, el la agrede mucho y muestra demasiada violencia y maltrato hacia ella en muchas ocasiones eso no es de una persona que esté bien. A Rodas luces él es un hombre violento. Y JLO es una mujer arrogante vive en medio de los chismes por sus malas actitudes así que en mi pueblo decimos que se toparon piedra con coyol porque ambos son duros de romper y sacan chispas cuando se chocan entre sí. En otras palabras son tal para cual. Dios los hace y ellos se juntan
She’s good at making friends with wealthy promoters but otherwise she has no musical talent and suspect fashion arrogance equating to a 60 year old wanna be fashionista. It’s not happening.
Absolutely , she thought he looked good next to her abs tried to change him. He’s too smart for that silliness. Knew it was doomed as soon as o heard they’re back together for round 2. Who will be next for J-Ho
Only sexual attraction? People they attract them sexually, even angry, when they look to each others they will feel attraction again. Ben has always been distant. Even being beside, he acted like he was alone. Then people ask themselves why she lost patience... she isn't easy as well, then he became angry and rude as it was only her fault. He can be beautiful, but as a husband, he is bad. I met some 💩 men, but I prefer them than him. At least I never had this kind of situations in public, and because of the attraction we used to reconcile easily. Here they even aren't attracted. It's like an arrangement to be a glamorous couple for the paparazzi and that's all.
@@marwahob this is what you see in public but we no nothing between the walls. He told she is the most beautiful woman and have a nice body but never said she is kind, umble, good heart, or that the do nice things together. Only sexual attraction.
@@ASMRyouVEGANyetSe em cada um dos relacionamentos que ela teve, ganhou um anel de noivado... Com certeza... Deve ter um coleção destes anéis... Assim como tem muitos homens que precisam deixar de ser ingênuos... Tem mulheres que só visam os seus interesses... Vão trocando de homens, da mesma forma que trocam de roupas... 🇧🇷 BRASIL 🇧🇷
Lmao. EXACTLY! Well said. And if Jlo had ANY morals.... she didn't have enough MILLIONS by herself with her empire that She thought 2 miserable yrs of being married to her that she deserved 3/4 of all his assets & earnings from his entire career from acting? I CAN'T respect that or HER! She needs to stay alone & work on herself. She doesn't have enough fans to feed her ego or lack of self love & self acceptance. Sad but true. 56 yr old woman having to flaunt most of her body all over the internet CONSTANTLY. Come on get some dignity. There's a difference between sexy & trashy. Imo. Don't come for blood it's only my opinion. I just feel bad for Ben. Looks like he went thru the dang ringer with her.
@@elenarotestan5823 yes, but they sure brought their marriage out into the public sometimes. And it was not pretty. And the old saying, “ tell me who you hang with n I’ll tell you who you are.” And they both showed their misery in public!!
Oui beaucoup on l'air de dire qu'elle l'a rendu malheureux. Mais sur les vidéos je le vois a chaque fois plutôt fâché. Était il jaloux ? Parce qu'avec une femme qui est une star, qui aime la mode et se montrer ce n'est pas trop compatible...
I bet she demanded him to quit smoking, and he couldn't or wouldn't do it, even for her. And she wanted him to be with her at all her red carpet appearances, etc, and he wasn't interested in going to so many. They have different priorities, and it wasnt going to wkrk
If you can’t handle a diva stay away they don’t get that label for nothing. Lust is not Love it’s just a heated moment that turns cold once the steam evaporates.
Ben decision making is terrible..he cheated on his wife with their kids’ nanny..and remarried to his ex girlfriend…didn’t get prenup.. poor guy..but he should be smarter than this
I notice a lot of men do this (cheat with the help) it's so lazy...whomever they can have the easiest access to, anything convenient. You hardly ever have to look very far to figure out what they're doing...very predictable.
@@aiesyahsyahirah4717 since she has more money than him I don’t think he needed a prenup. Jen L can’t be that bad, Ben’s oldest daughter still visits with her and her family.
@@gwenbiggins Yes but they also spend moore remember that guys, they spen all their own money, half yours, and then they sue you and take half of what is left. But honestly probably dosn't matter who he hooks up with it is going to be the same story.
@@Myrslokstok Until he can live with himself he is always going to be unhappy! Jen G needs to stop being his crutch, he chose the nanny over his family!
Why all the people think, it was her fault? It could also be that she ran out of patience with a weak man because she is a strong woman. I had the same problem and at some point I ran out of patience. And he had some addictions too. I´m always surprised, why so many women put the blame on the woman and not the man. Very strange.
Not ben Affleck is a REAL man sorry because my dad told me at 17 years old a REAL man never hits a woman or raises his voice let them destroy them selfies God bless you ben Affleck for being a man God bless you and he will 🎉
She's definitely probably not marriage material. How many marriages and relationships is this in total. She's in this as a business contarct and all her relationships for publicity I'd assume.
She’s definitely had more than most…married to Ohani Noa, Chris Judd, Mark Anthony, Ben Affleck…engaged to Ben Affleck, Casper, ARod and who knows how many else!!
Ben is not much better than her. His marriage also failed for a reason. And he is harsh and aggressive, too. Both have to heal their inner children and transform their pasts. Otherwise, every new relationship will end up in heartbreak. I wish the best to each of them!
You can just see that J-lo is the type of person who can turn on the charm when the cameras are on her but behind the scenes, she's a witch. She is never going to be happy until she loses that ego of hers...
He wasn't that way around Jennifer Garner so it's obvious jlo was the problem. He smiles more than ever being around Jennifer Garner because she's a really good person, down to earth, humanitarian, she's an all around good person.
They look good together though don’t they. But that’s never enough. Especially, when you are dealing with two huge egos. I would love to see JLo on her own for a while just loving herself. No man can love you like you. Self love is everything ✨💕✨
Jenny from the BLOCK.. 😂😂 you can clean up the outside but you can never clean up ugly on the inside. Only a higher power can do that and it's plain to SEE that is NOT the case.
I don't think any of us knows exactly what went on before, during, or after that marriage. It's rarely one party's "fault," that things didn't work out, & sometimes nobody did anything wrong, they just aren't compatible.
Ben is about 99% not smiling when he is shown with JLopez! And he is 100% smiling in pictures with JGarner !!! Lopez projects to be very into herself … thinks she is better than others . Would not enjoy spending time with her!!! Talented, but … ?!? Garner is more laid back, easy going, more REAL, easily more like someone you would enjoy having as a neighbor. She is beautiful and extremely talented. If I had to pick one over the other , who do you think I would pick? Also, who do you think Ben would pick?
She had 8 years with Marc Anthony. That's the guy who matched her energy the most. This one was too fiery and toxic. Having chemistry isn't even a quarter of the recipe for a successful relationship.
It’s just all material things that you can’t bring to your grave when you die ! The most important thing and that truly matters is your personal relationship with God! Without God who gives you everything that you needed, where will you be! Even your life , belongs to Him and it shall be given back to Him as well! We have nothing to boast ! Selah ! Amen !
Yes I heard that months before they split Ben was the one who had to negotiate getting some private video or pics of her time back with Diddy to try to cover her Ass & save her reputation. When he seen what was on it & how corrupt it was I heard it was the final nail in the coffin on their marriage! IF she was there during those white parties where people were being drugged & raped - she MUST have known being Diddys girl for 2 years & if they find that evidence old Jenny from the Block needs to go straight to PRISON as well as every other M.F involved in it! Unconscionable! The bigger u are, the harder u fall. And it doesn't matter how many millions You have then. Hollywood's finally getting cleaned up. ✌💯🙏🇨🇦
The reason why they didn't work out is because Jlo is a selfish person. Ben is no better, hense he had a petfect family with Jennifer Garner, but like everything marriage takes work. If two people truly love each other, then they both should put that as their number one priority. Jlo and Ben should just stay single. When you worship money their is no hope in a committed relationship. JLo is living her best life. I hope she repents before she dies or she will regret it. Living eternity in darkness will be torture. Sad.
She is too selfish to make a marriage work. I am glad Ben escaped her mean girl controlling clutched. Garner is classier anyway. Jen might soon be going off to jail.
She deserved to keep everything because she had to put up with his childish ways and his disrespect torch her. At the end of the day Ben disrespected both women. How could anyone sugarcoat his actions towards JLo and Jennifer Garner he isn't a good man.
@ Wtfever seriously she disrespected him with her diva damn ways plus she sleeps with every damn Man she meets that thing should be worn out by now really
All these money claims are false. As a matter of fact, nobody has access to the confidential settlement agreement that settled their divorce. She should sue your false gossip.
The green diamond ring is worth 5 million that she kept bc it was a gift. She kept gifts, jewelry, clothing, etc. Nowhere does it say that she made out like a bandit with 400K. The sale of their mansion is private. What was theirs remains theirs. What was earned during the marriage remains theirs. Nobody was fleeced.
@scorbunny7737 Hi, I know they said 500K in the video & they misspoke. The large green diamond ring is estimated to be worth over 5 million. The 8.5 - carat radiant cut green diamond is flanked by 2 half-moon accent diamonds set on a platinum band. It was green bc green is her lucky color.
They weren’t married long enough for any of their stuff, money etc to be considered community property….each should take what they brought into the marriage and what each made during the marriage….should be pretty straightforward…
@paradisedreaming6363 I believe that's exactly what happened. He didn't contest the ring or other things he bought her. They were gifts. He did want spousal support, etc. They just wanted it over. Then they'll settle the huge 62 million mansion when it sells privately.
So glad Jennifer divorced Ben who is a Miserable😵💫 Drunk&is totally Jealous of Jen's popularity no matter How hard she tried to civalize him😢 He's just an Unhappy drunk😖What can anyone do but let him go😂
One of the most ridiculous statements I have ever heard because through the years we all can see how he acted when he didn't get his way and it was not pretty for either Jennifer's. We all can see that Jennifer Garner had a fiance and her fiance even made a statement that she was spending too much time with her ex without the children. To me they both are disgusting and Jennifer Lopez was right to get rid of him.
@@morgainlovejust because the tapes haven’t been released doesn’t mean they are not real. JLo definitely participated in Diddy’s Shenanigans and if you think differently you are gullible
Funny considering it was jlo who filed for the divorce from Ben. It was also jlo that paid for everything not Ben but it was Ben that chased after her once he knew she was single. He has played both jlo and Garner, he broke off his engagement with jlo to be with Garner once he knew she had left her then husband. He's now all over Garner again because she's with someone else. He wants what he can't have until he gets what he wanted.
When a person does, evil in ORDER, to be famous+RICH. IT goes DOWN, Spiritual, VERY down. Life, is SHORT. EVERYBODY GETS OLD, with wringles, and EVERYBODY DIES.
That a lie and you know it! Now if he were with someone who looks like you he would have been gone! Don’t be such a hater, she gorgeous, smart, artistic, confident and compassionate! He looks more happy then he ever looked living the royals way! Freedom is an important factor and she helped him get what he has wanted for years, away from the fake, grifting weird royals!
Looks can be deceiving..most people are extremely biased when it comes to those two because they don't like Meghan for some reason, hmm 😏 Public perceptions and assumptions are not facts.
@ You are 💯% correct! People are so gullible that they believe everything said in hate about someone. Then they just say and see what they want to justify their decisions!
This is just a ridiculous video because through the years we could see that Ben disrespect and was rude to both women and with both women when he didn't get his way he would throw a tantrum in front of everyone. I'm glad to see JLo got rid of him because he acted like a child when he didn't get his wife. He was disrespecting both of them. It's hard to see people giving him respect when he doesn't deserve it. He's a very vindictive man if he didn't get what he wanted.
She got $400 million because that's what she came into the marriage with smh. And no, they didn't sell their house yet so it seems like this is all false information..from beginning to end.
Achieve her goal ?? Her don't cost a thing and I believe that whole heartly ! She's way way richer than him. Really. She loved him. He had deep seated issues. No one could deal with him. Not his ex or Jay.
She should’ve stayed with A Rod she tried to make it like he cheated on her but was talking to Ben while A Rod was not and awhile but she was with Diddy Ewww.
This narrator is a sociopath. Clearly she sees Ben being angry and rude and she's blaming Jennifer. We only see HIS drunken bad behavior. Watch the Barbie movie and stop blaming women. JEN TOOK NOTHING!
You never go back to an ex, they are an ex for a reason!
I remember this words and here I see it again
NEVER!
I said they wouldn't last 5 years because of that reasoning when they got married and everyone flipped out 😂
He shouldn’t be allowed to be in couple with anyone. He’s a womanizer, can’t stop himself and when he gets bored he starts drinking and put the blame on his exes.
Greed - BA should have stirred clear of JL PERIOD
My psychology professor said, “The problems at the beginning of the marriage will be the same problems that lead to divorce at the end.” it’s important to solve those problems right at the beginning so then they don’t become bigger at the end.
But the problem is people don't change
Awareness is the first step to any change. If they do not become aware that they are or have a problem, they will not work at changing anything.
So true
I had a wonderful art teacher who said to me that in the beginning we only see 10% of the other one flaws....so by the end, one either work on it to stay together or will see the whole 100% and end up in divorce.
Its not that ppl dont change its that they are far more comfortable being the pos they currently are rather than seeing something is wrong and choosing to do the hard work it takes to truly see a change and fix what got messed up. Healing isn't for the faint of heart and isn't easy or everyone would do it. @@HalfLash
He literally looked miserable every time u saw them together. So glad he got out.
Agree. And she didn't deserve a penny.
@@isabelpark7650 She's already got plenty of money, why take his?
@@laraoneal7284 she didn’t look too happy either! It was just an itch that both have had for years. Now that it’s been scratched, they can both go on their merry ways into other peoples lives n mess those up too!
@@aliciablankenship6663Oh no. Diddy'affairs are coming out and she knew everything
Affleck is an alcoholic until he gets help he's going to have problems and when he gets clean she'll see that he has to on his part he all allowed Jennifer to do that to him he has no self-esteem has no clue who he is until he gets cleaned nobody else but to himself he could get help once he starts working on himself that will not happen anymore
The reason they didn’t make their marriage work is because the issues they had on their first go hadn’t changed. Jen likes the limelight and flashing cameras, Ben doesn’t. Nothing against either one.
She was involved with Diddy. I thought that's what the arguments were about. Cause he found out when it hit the news. ( perYT)
Oh, please.That's what the main stream.Media wants us to believe which is probably fed by her publicist
She had an affair with Diddy. She knew everything
@@marshathomas7575 Diddy and Jennifer had a whole relationship publicly, Ben had to know about it, it wasn't hidden..
@@isabellefrey6221really😮
He just had to get her out of his system. If he never married her, he’d still be pining for her. So he finally married her n now it’s over. He finally got her out of his system!
Didn't take long! She's faired well out of it financially & straight onto the next one!
That's what she's all about, marry them then divorce & take them for all the $$$ an Assets she can get, she ain't that great of an actor either, No class at all lol, Jenny from the block" @@marynehra502
Good point
@@marynehra502 ya got that right. She’s been engaged and married more times than I can count.
No, it’s the other way around.
He left her both times so it was him that JLO needed to grasp onto and marry to get him out of her system. All the $17 million worth of engagement rings won’t quench her insatiable thirst and desperation for partner who will stick around for her vile behavior. True to her Leo zodiac sign, she absolutely is an animal-a very codependent one
After so many failed marriages J.Lo needs to ask herself - maybe it's her who's the problem
True 😢
It is not like she cares. Marriage is just another Transaction to her seems like it.
No I dont think so. She won several hundred millions with her marriages. I think this haven been always her goal. She collects engagements rings like Thanos as someone said once... High maintenance gold digger primadonna. She is too old to change on that.
WRONG!!!!!!
Ganz sicher ist sie das Problem.
Months ago, when I saw him close that car door, I said “it’s OVER” 😂😂😂😂😂!!! That man was fed up!!!!😂
HE WAS MAD AT THE
REPORTERS BOTHERING
THEM!!!!
Yep ❤
I don’t care for JLo at all but I’ll bet Ben is just a miserable person.
Agreed. And he’s got issues he can’t get past.
Ich finde eher sie ist ein elender egozentrischer Mensch.
Totalmente de acuerdo si realmente fuera bueno no haría todas esas cosas en público, el la agrede mucho y muestra demasiada violencia y maltrato hacia ella en muchas ocasiones eso no es de una persona que esté bien. A Rodas luces él es un hombre violento. Y JLO es una mujer arrogante vive en medio de los chismes por sus malas actitudes así que en mi pueblo decimos que se toparon piedra con coyol porque ambos son duros de romper y sacan chispas cuando se chocan entre sí. En otras palabras son tal para cual. Dios los hace y ellos se juntan
And he cheated on his previous wife and treated her so poorly. Overall, he is worst than jlo, no wonder why they married each other 😂
Was miserable
The rest of Ben's years will be the best of Ben's years. 🙆🏾♀️
exactly!
Not with Pluto Opposite his Sun for 20 years
@@kayodudu5190or unless Ben goes missing 😞cuz he knows TOOOOO much about Jen’s dirty secrets with diddy & the rest of the elites😢🙏🙏🙏
@@kayodudu5190😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂τρία πουλιά καθίσανε στου Διάκου το ταμπούρι!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Her problem is her ego
They both have high ego
I agree. 4 husbands. It’s obviously her
yup 💯 she is annoying im sorry
They're both Leo's. Ego is right 🦁
She’s good at making friends with wealthy promoters but otherwise she has no musical talent and suspect fashion arrogance equating to a 60 year old wanna be fashionista. It’s not happening.
He smelled her legal issues with Diddy still haunting as a red flag & exited, stage left.
Exactly 💯 he is no saint either. He cheated and treated his previous wife so poorly, and got married to jlo within few months. He is a walking trash.
I think he realized the only one she cared about was herself
She's money hungry too 😂😅
Four failed marriages. Ya think?
Absolutely , she thought he looked good next to her abs tried to change him.
He’s too smart for that silliness.
Knew it was doomed as soon as o heard they’re back together for round 2.
Who will be next for J-Ho
@sayusayme7729Rumors have it Kevin Costner! Run Kevin Run! You get sloppy thousands, and she had Diddy.💯 NASTY
Narcissist
What were you thinking, Ben?
Jlo is toxic
@@martavioustisby4942
What was she thinking? Are we forgetting why Jen G kicked his butt to the curb? Ben has no swag. Does the man even bathe?
He wasn't ~ Or, he was thinking with the wrong head. 😂
@@Chrissa-Dshe is toxic and he was drunk, nobody is perfect!😂
WHICH head did he use to think?
He spoke so harshly about Jen G when they divorced, and now about JLo. He is the common denominator.
It's not about money. They were not a match. Only sexual attraction.
Only sexual attraction? People they attract them sexually, even angry, when they look to each others they will feel attraction again. Ben has always been distant. Even being beside, he acted like he was alone. Then people ask themselves why she lost patience... she isn't easy as well, then he became angry and rude as it was only her fault. He can be beautiful, but as a husband, he is bad. I met some 💩 men, but I prefer them than him. At least I never had this kind of situations in public, and because of the attraction we used to reconcile easily. Here they even aren't attracted. It's like an arrangement to be a glamorous couple for the paparazzi and that's all.
She got 400 million dollars out of 500 million dollars, not about money?
@@elizabethkollerer6449 no...as you said she no need money from Ben.
@@marwahob this is what you see in public but we no nothing between the walls.
He told she is the most beautiful woman and have a nice body but never said she is kind, umble, good heart, or that the do nice things together.
Only sexual attraction.
They are hungry for money and power and limelight. Marriage always takes a backseat for people like this.
JLO is too demanding/controlling, and Ben has been a mess over the years🤞🤞🤞
These women can be so exhausting.Looks like Kevin Costner is gonna wind up in her web.
@@henrymosquera8646
So are the men! Especially a lifetime recovering addict! Run Jlo! Let him be someone else's project.
@@henrymosquera8646Kevin Costner is not in his right state of mind if he wants to get involved with JLO.
You forgot to mention her arrogance!🤮
Lipez has a family problem. Pribably nevee had a dime and she doesnt want to be like her family, poorrrrrr!
Phyco
She has amassed numerous engagement and wedding rings at this point…..and step fathers for her kids!!
7 rings minimum !!!!!!
Right?? It's nuts how many guys she's had
😂😂😂THE RING COLLECTOR😂😂😂
She did give the pink ring back and the jeweler took it back.
@@JodyMeyer-h9v🤭🤭
Don’t forget she also kept the ring 💍 for her collection 🤣
Why should she not? It's her ring
@@ASMRyouVEGANyetbecause it doesn't means anything now
😂😂😂😂😂
@@ASMRyouVEGANyetSe em cada um dos relacionamentos que ela teve, ganhou um anel de noivado...
Com certeza...
Deve ter um coleção destes anéis...
Assim como tem muitos homens que precisam deixar de ser ingênuos...
Tem mulheres que só visam os seus interesses...
Vão trocando de homens, da mesma forma que trocam de roupas...
🇧🇷 BRASIL 🇧🇷
7 rings minimum !!!! 😂😂😂
I do not think anyone can truly kw what goes on behind closed doors !!
No way! The voice over totally knew all the details 😂
There is a big difference between Garner and Lopez. Garner has a heart and truly loves Ben. Lopez has a mirror.
No, Lopez won't kiss his butt to stay with him! Jen G kicked his butt to the curb also! How soon we all forget!
Lmao. EXACTLY! Well said. And if Jlo had ANY morals.... she didn't have enough MILLIONS by herself with her empire that She thought 2 miserable yrs of being married to her that she deserved 3/4 of all his assets & earnings from his entire career from acting? I CAN'T respect that or HER! She needs to stay alone & work on herself. She doesn't have enough fans to feed her ego or lack of self love & self acceptance. Sad but true. 56 yr old woman having to flaunt most of her body all over the internet CONSTANTLY. Come on get some dignity. There's a difference between sexy & trashy. Imo. Don't come for blood it's only my opinion. I just feel bad for Ben. Looks like he went thru the dang ringer with her.
Better not to judge as nobody but them only knows what happens behind doors. None of us exactly knows.
@@elenarotestan5823 yes, but they sure brought their marriage out into the public sometimes. And it was not pretty.
And the old saying, “ tell me who you hang with n I’ll tell you who you are.” And they both showed their misery in public!!
Agree. He also has an alcohol problem which might make him moody and hard to live with. 🇺🇲
Oui beaucoup on l'air de dire qu'elle l'a rendu malheureux. Mais sur les vidéos je le vois a chaque fois plutôt fâché. Était il jaloux ? Parce qu'avec une femme qui est une star, qui aime la mode et se montrer ce n'est pas trop compatible...
What is obvious is that they never matched these 2.
She had a relationship with Diddy
I bet she demanded him to quit smoking, and he couldn't or wouldn't do it, even for her. And she wanted him to be with her at all her red carpet appearances, etc, and he wasn't interested in going to so many. They have different priorities, and it wasnt going to wkrk
If you can’t handle a diva stay away they don’t get that label for nothing. Lust is not Love it’s just a heated moment that turns cold once the steam evaporates.
I hope his ex wife J.G. doesn't ever consider getting back together with him.
I hope not
Same
Isn’t she already in a long term relationship?
Never!
Non lo farà.... É molto più intelligente di Jennifer lopez. 😅
You never recycle your garbage….heloooo
Ben decision making is terrible..he cheated on his wife with their kids’ nanny..and remarried to his ex girlfriend…didn’t get prenup.. poor guy..but he should be smarter than this
I notice a lot of men do this (cheat with the help) it's so lazy...whomever they can have the easiest access to, anything convenient.
You hardly ever have to look very far to figure out what they're doing...very predictable.
@@aiesyahsyahirah4717 since she has more money than him I don’t think he needed a prenup. Jen L can’t be that bad, Ben’s oldest daughter still visits with her and her family.
@@gwenbiggins
Yes but they also spend moore remember that guys, they spen all their own money, half yours, and then they sue you and take half of what is left.
But honestly probably dosn't matter who he hooks up with it is going to be the same story.
@@Myrslokstok Until he can live with himself he is always going to be unhappy! Jen G needs to stop being his crutch, he chose the nanny over his family!
Well that's cuz she still acts like a kid. 😂😂😂✌@@gwenbiggins
He chose Jezebel.
Jennifer will marry many men but she will single forever
For sure and end up lonely
Are you God?
JLo appears to be all about money, money, fame, money, image, money, looks, money, money...
She showed her true common colours, he was an idiot not to see it
Jeniffer is only interest in being thr center of attention .
Why all the people think, it was her fault? It could also be that she ran out of patience with a weak man because she is a strong woman. I had the same problem and at some point I ran out of patience. And he had some addictions too. I´m always surprised, why so many women put the blame on the woman and not the man. Very strange.
She was demanding, a b---h from what I've read. Super high maintenance, and Ben is a laid back guy.
Exactamente yo también he pensado eso
He is sick and needs treatment. She is too strong for him to handle
I think there is plenty of blame to go around. He was miserable with Jennifer Gardner too
Not ben Affleck is a REAL man sorry because my dad told me at 17 years old a REAL man never hits a woman or raises his voice let them destroy them selfies God bless you ben Affleck for being a man God bless you and he will 🎉
He should have never got back with her.
Only time I see him smile is when he’s with his ex-wife and their children .
He was miserable with them as well. He is a miserable person.
Ben is totally free to be happy now.
Y ella también. Ninguno de los dos son "santos".
SO IS JLO!!!!
RUN BEN RUN
Exactly toxic relationship...poor Ben..
RUN JLO
RUN JLO❤❤❤❤
He got the better of it. He's done with her.
Yes you’re right
She's definitely probably not marriage material. How many marriages and relationships is this in total. She's in this as a business contarct and all her relationships for publicity I'd assume.
She’s definitely had more than most…married to Ohani Noa, Chris Judd, Mark Anthony, Ben Affleck…engaged to Ben Affleck, Casper, ARod and who knows how many else!!
Dude left a gem for a fake diamond.
That car door slam said it ALL ###NEXT❤❤❤😂😂😂
I’m not a fan of hers anyway
Ben is not much better than her. His marriage also failed for a reason. And he is harsh and aggressive, too. Both have to heal their inner children and transform their pasts. Otherwise, every new relationship will end up in heartbreak. I wish the best to each of them!
True
All comments seem to hit the nail on the head, but when it comes to couples' problems, it's, "there are 3 truths--his, hers and the real truth"
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Money, money, money. Ben looks defeated and tired.
Like I always say MY QUOTE "No matter how beautiful the front yard is there's always a cave in the backyard". 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Never hoid that one
Ben is a hands-on dad and Jennifer is not a hands-on mom.
Who will be her nxt husband hmmm????
You can just see that J-lo is the type of person who can turn on the charm when the cameras are on her but behind the scenes, she's a witch. She is never going to be happy until she loses that ego of hers...
Humble is not the way to make it the music world or Hollywood! Get off my girl's bra strap!
Why are people assuming he didn't start the arguments with his grouchy demeanor?
I agree 💯! He reminds me of my difficult husband who is now estranged. Ben needs to be alone,these types of men are toxic.,
Yep!
People love to hate on jlo. I'm not even a fan of hers but I see the bias against her
He wasn't that way around Jennifer Garner so it's obvious jlo was the problem. He smiles more than ever being around Jennifer Garner because she's a really good person, down to earth, humanitarian, she's an all around good person.
Unlike jlo she's the diva who hundreds of not thousands of people have a problem with
@@AnnaLee-ne2lwso why did they divorce then?
They look good together though don’t they. But that’s never enough. Especially, when you are dealing with two huge egos. I would love to see JLo on her own for a while just loving herself. No man can love you like you. Self love is everything ✨💕✨
Jenny from the BLOCK.. 😂😂 you can clean up the outside but you can never clean up ugly on the inside. Only a higher power can do that and it's plain to SEE that is NOT the case.
@@dianafleetwood6154 he is an abuser a cheater and and also an addict... r u slow or sth?
@@dianafleetwood6154 ben wont pet u diana chill lol
I don't think any of us knows exactly what went on before, during, or after that marriage. It's rarely one party's "fault," that things didn't work out, & sometimes nobody did anything wrong, they just aren't compatible.
The clock was ticking when his family didn’t show up to their Georgia wedding.
I did not know that lol 😂😂😂😂😂 it was a mistake from 🦘🦘 jump 😊
An obsession finally ended
I never liked Jennifer Lopez 😲😲😲
Let this be a lesson……. Spinning the block never works 💀👀
Their Co dependent. She took the split way more difficult than Ben did.
I am sure Diddy will find that 40 Million Dollars useful.😜
Ben is about 99% not smiling when he is shown with JLopez!
And he is 100% smiling in pictures with JGarner !!!
Lopez projects to be very into herself … thinks she is better than others . Would not enjoy spending time with her!!!
Talented, but … ?!?
Garner is more laid back, easy going, more REAL, easily more
like someone you would enjoy having as a neighbor. She is beautiful and extremely talented.
If I had to pick one over the other , who do you think I would pick? Also, who do you think Ben would pick?
Garner
Well said!
THE HOUSEKEEPER/ NANNY...................
Poor Ben so sad to see him so defeated and stressed 😢
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Men: leave Jennifer alone.. she’s got issues 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
She cash him in like an old poker chip worth $400.000.000 Million dollars WOW. 2024.
She had 8 years with Marc Anthony. That's the guy who matched her energy the most. This one was too fiery and toxic. Having chemistry isn't even a quarter of the recipe for a successful relationship.
💯 I agree, what happened with Marc Anthony? I liked them together
LIZ TAYLOR, GOT MARRIED 8 TIMES. 2 TIMES with the same man, they got 2 times DIVORCE.
It’s just all material things that you can’t bring to your grave when you die ! The most important thing and that truly matters is your personal relationship with God! Without God who gives you everything that you needed, where will you be! Even your life , belongs to Him and it shall be given back to Him as well! We have nothing to boast ! Selah ! Amen !
Maybe they had a Godless marriage. Jennifer's God was money and fame. That's the problem.
They were both a horrible and annoying couple! I am so glad they got a divorce!
Yes definitely agree
Ben made such a huge mistake with JLO... I feel for him
I Bet he saw those Diddy tapes and he was like Oh Hell No I'm Out!!!!
Yes I was shocked to hear of the terrible things she partook in at the freak offs. Disgusting.
Yes I heard that months before they split Ben was the one who had to negotiate getting some private video or pics of her time back with Diddy to try to cover her Ass & save her reputation. When he seen what was on it & how corrupt it was I heard it was the final nail in the coffin on their marriage! IF she was there during those white parties where people were being drugged & raped - she MUST have known being Diddys girl for 2 years & if they find that evidence old Jenny from the Block needs to go straight to PRISON as well as every other M.F involved in it! Unconscionable! The bigger u are, the harder u fall. And it doesn't matter how many millions You have then. Hollywood's finally getting cleaned up. ✌💯🙏🇨🇦
He finally got smart
The reason why they didn't work out is because Jlo is a selfish person. Ben is no better, hense he had a petfect family with Jennifer Garner, but like everything marriage takes work. If two people truly love each other, then they both should put that as their number one priority.
Jlo and Ben should just stay single. When you worship money their is no hope in a committed relationship. JLo is living her best life. I hope she repents before she dies or she will regret it. Living eternity in darkness will be torture. Sad.
Thank God, he got rid of her
She was delusional, thinking she could relive the past. Now she's setting her claws for Kevin Costner,🏃♂️➡️run Kevin 🏃♂️➡️run 🤔
Wait she has more money then him and still gets 400M out of 500M. Wtf kind of lawyer did he have. Cause that lawyer was an azz.
It took him too long! She's just a joke to me.
She is too selfish to make a marriage work. I am glad Ben escaped her mean girl controlling clutched. Garner is classier anyway. Jen might soon be going off to jail.
Another Amber Heard along with Blake Lively following suit
I think 🤔 he was a dam fool for leveling his Frist wife!
Damn take them back she doesn’t deserve them
She deserved to keep everything because she had to put up with his childish ways and his disrespect torch her. At the end of the day Ben disrespected both women. How could anyone sugarcoat his actions towards JLo and Jennifer Garner he isn't a good man.
@ Wtfever seriously she disrespected him with her diva damn ways plus she sleeps with every damn Man she meets that thing should be worn out by now really
@elizabethstanford6826 well said!
All these money claims are false. As a matter of fact, nobody has access to the confidential settlement agreement that settled their divorce. She should sue your false gossip.
They used each other during their marriage.
FRESH, START. ❤
The green diamond ring is worth 5 million that she kept bc it was a gift. She kept gifts, jewelry, clothing, etc. Nowhere does it say that she made out like a bandit with 400K. The sale of their mansion is private. What was theirs remains theirs. What was earned during the marriage remains theirs. Nobody was fleeced.
The green diamond ring is worth 500k. Not 5 million. Re-watch the video 😉
@scorbunny7737 Hi, I know they said 500K in the video & they misspoke. The large green diamond ring is estimated to be worth over 5 million. The 8.5 - carat radiant cut green diamond is flanked by 2 half-moon accent diamonds set on a platinum band. It was green bc green is her lucky color.
They weren’t married long enough for any of their stuff, money etc to be considered community property….each should take what they brought into the marriage and what each made during the marriage….should be pretty straightforward…
great freemason; hand over eye pose, to go with it
@paradisedreaming6363 I believe that's exactly what happened. He didn't contest the ring or other things he bought her. They were gifts. He did want spousal support, etc. They just wanted it over. Then they'll settle the huge 62 million mansion when it sells privately.
You know what J Lo is right 😂😂😂😂😂
Be generous àt all time God is on your side 🙏🙏
So glad Jennifer divorced
Ben who is a Miserable😵💫
Drunk&is totally Jealous of
Jen's popularity no matter
How hard she tried to civalize him😢 He's just an
Unhappy drunk😖What can
anyone do but let him go😂
Ben is such a generous, kind and Giving man.
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lol, the 400 million was Jennifer’s money. Everyone took what they brought to the marriage. Very funny video. 😂😂😂
Do you personally know him ?
One of the most ridiculous statements I have ever heard because through the years we all can see how he acted when he didn't get his way and it was not pretty for either Jennifer's. We all can see that Jennifer Garner had a fiance and her fiance even made a statement that she was spending too much time with her ex without the children. To me they both are disgusting and Jennifer Lopez was right to get rid of him.
Plus reports said he saw her on Diddy tapes given to him by the FBI, 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ so he was done ✅ with her too 🤔
That case in still under investigation. Police can't bring tapes and records out. Think for yourself,when you read.
@@morgainlovejust because the tapes haven’t been released doesn’t mean they are not real. JLo definitely participated in Diddy’s Shenanigans and if you think differently you are gullible
Funny considering it was jlo who filed for the divorce from Ben.
It was also jlo that paid for everything not Ben but it was Ben that chased after her once he knew she was single.
He has played both jlo and Garner, he broke off his engagement with jlo to be with Garner once he knew she had left her then husband.
He's now all over Garner again because she's with someone else.
He wants what he can't have until he gets what he wanted.
@ Exactly right. He’s no different than 75% of the single men out there today.
Taylor Swift needs to stop stalking these people!!!
He is a big baby. He was blaming J.G. for his drinking and had no problem putting her down with J. L. when he was dating her.
Some people haven't figured it out, they need to remain single.
When a person does, evil in ORDER, to be famous+RICH. IT goes DOWN, Spiritual, VERY down. Life, is SHORT. EVERYBODY GETS OLD, with wringles, and EVERYBODY DIES.
Harry looks the same with Megan...unhappy and angry
That a lie and you know it! Now if he were with someone who looks like you he would have been gone! Don’t be such a hater, she gorgeous, smart, artistic, confident and compassionate! He looks more happy then he ever looked living the royals way! Freedom is an important factor and she helped him get what he has wanted for years, away from the fake, grifting weird royals!
Looks can be deceiving..most people are extremely biased when it comes to those two because they don't like Meghan for some reason, hmm 😏
Public perceptions and assumptions are not facts.
@ You are 💯% correct! People are so gullible that they believe everything said in hate about someone. Then they just say and see what they want to justify their decisions!
Dude I thought Ben was a smart guy
This is just a ridiculous video because through the years we could see that Ben disrespect and was rude to both women and with both women when he didn't get his way he would throw a tantrum in front of everyone. I'm glad to see JLo got rid of him because he acted like a child when he didn't get his wife. He was disrespecting both of them. It's hard to see people giving him respect when he doesn't deserve it. He's a very vindictive man if he didn't get what he wanted.
She got $400 million because that's what she came into the marriage with smh. And no, they didn't sell their house yet so it seems like this is all false information..from beginning to end.
It is fale. It doesn't even add up or make sense
Time for Ben to make a comeback!
Yes!! 🙌🏽 🙌🏽
Clairegossip is a grifter who tells lies. Jlo hasn't sold the 60 million house.
Achieve her goal ?? Her don't cost a thing and I believe that whole heartly ! She's way way richer than him. Really. She loved him. He had deep seated issues. No one could deal with him. Not his ex or Jay.
Should have got that prenup😊
I don’t like her at all!!
She should’ve stayed with A Rod she tried to make it like he cheated on her but was talking to Ben while A Rod was not and awhile but she was with Diddy Ewww.
Where are the comments?
This narrator is a sociopath. Clearly she sees Ben being angry and rude and she's blaming Jennifer. We only see HIS drunken bad behavior. Watch the Barbie movie and stop blaming women. JEN TOOK NOTHING!